Healing White History: Courageous Conversations with My Ancestors

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Steve Baughman Jensen shares his project "Healing White History," in which he confronts his ancestors' roles in slavery, genocide, and systemic racism by researching their lives deeply and writing imagined conversations with them. Through this process, he grapples with inherited family narratives that honored colonizers and enslavers while erasing their victims, and he calls on other white people to undertake similar reckoning and repair work.
Key takeaways
- Families inherit not just DNA but also stories that shape identity and perpetuate systems of harm; examining these stories is essential to understanding how racism persists today.
- Writing detailed, character-driven conversations with ancestors—based on thorough historical research into their beliefs, daily lives, and contexts—makes abstract wrongs viscerally real and emotionally transformative.
- White people have responsibility (distinct from individual guilt) to understand how they benefit from racist systems and work toward repair and reparations, particularly when they discover enslaver or colonizer ancestors.
- Confronting family members about this history, though difficult and sometimes triggering "white fragility," can open healing conversations and catalyze joint action on reparations.
- White writers addressing racism must stay centered in their own perspective, acknowledge the fatigue this causes people of color, and remain humble about their limitations and potential to cause harm.
About Steve Baughman JensenSteve Baughman Jensen is a retired environmental lawyer and author working on a book exploring how white families inherited and perpetuated racist systems through family stories and ancestor narratives.
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Program: Healing White History: Courageous Conversations with My Ancestors
Speaker: Steve Baughman Jensen
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A few years ago, Steve Baughman Jensen discovered that his third-great-grandfather wasn't just a slave owner — he was a slave trader who "invested his surplus earnings in negroes." He also helped lead a paramilitary organization that sought to preserve and expand slavery. This is an ancestor Steve's beloved grandmother had celebrated. One whose framed poem hung in Steve's den. Steve has now written a book about confronting him — and other ancestors who passed down to me the false story that white people are better than everyone else.
Steve confronts his ancestors because stories build identities and drive systems, and his family’s story helped build systems that still harm people today. The conversations demonstrate how imagination can make these hard truths more personal, and therefore more real. At the same time, these visits with dead family members offer healing. They help Steve recognize the spots in his own thoughts and behavior where he's inherited not only genetics, but also a toxic story. They help metabolize grief and shame into responsibility.
Steve spent 23 years as a trial lawyer, seeking justice on behalf of individuals who became sick from toxic exposures. Mental health issues brought that chapter of his story to a close 10 years ago. Today, Steve is a writer, a racial justice advocate, and a proud husband, father, and grandfather. He believes in the power of stories to shape and transform us.
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